Surrender to the Dance
Some years ago I was in NY for the annual conference of Shluchim. I saw a friend who had recently celebrated the marriage of his daughter.
I asked him how the wedding was and he shared a piece of advice. When your daughter gets married, don't have any L'chaim at the wedding. The joy of the celebration is so great that you don't need any support to celebrate. Just let the joy out of your soul and your feet will respond in kind.
I took his advice and four weddings in, I have danced with abandon at each of my children's weddings (and I'm getting better and better at it :-)).
As we celebrate Zman Simchaseinu - the festival of joy and prepare ourselves for Simchas Torah I invite you to let go and let G-d. After accessing the essence of our soul on Rosh Hashanah and its climax on Yom Kippur, we have an opportunity to take this experience of soul and let it translate all the way to our feet.
The energy we unleash inside of us can empower us the entire year to live aligned and connected.
Put your dancing shoes on and join us Tuesday evening (and Wednesday morning), celebrating our Judaism from our souls to our soles. Dance it up!
Ps. At some point we take it to the BeltLine and dance it from our souls into the world around us, creating transformation inside and outside. https://www.chabadintown.com/events/simchastorah
Chag Sameach and Good Shabbos!
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In a conversation recently with someone regarding the tension between the USA/Israel and Iran, I made a comment that the Iranian's are crazy and have a death wish.
The following is a story that I heard from my niece's new father in law - Rabbi Aryeh Solomon - at their Sheva Brachos last Shabbos.
Before my Yechidus (private audience), I prepared a Tzettel (a note) to give to the Rebbe, as was customary. In it I wrote about who I was, where I was holding in life, and what I hoped to accomplish in the future.
Idealism is a blessing and also totally unrealistic. Oh, I don't intend to throw the baby out with the bathwater. No, Idealism is what has brought change to the world. Idealism has brought so much good to the world. But it only works when it moves out of its idealistic space into reality.
When the Previous Rebbe’s grandmother, Rebbetzin Rivkah, was eighteen, she fell ill and the physician ordered her to eat immediately upon awakening. She, however, did not wish to eat before davening, so she davened very early, then ate breakfast.
We live in blessed times with unique awareness about our inner world. With that comes an increase in anxiety wondering how we can get rid of the narratives that seem to interfere with living in alignment.
Are you forgetful? Do you ever forget to get something done because it is not on your to do list? Is it possible to get something done in the best possible manner by running away from doing the very thing?
At the beginning of this week's Parsha, the Torah gives us the ancestry of Moses and Aaron and their children. It is not the first or the last time the Torah gives us their pedigree. What is different is the association with their mothers as opposed to their fathers.
(Generally in Torah tradition, tribal association is defined by the father, and identity by the mother.)
Our journey on this earth can feel taxing and burdensome at times. Yet the great mystics teach that these very challenges are the reason the soul descends into this world in the first place.
There is a strong debate these days about the value of therapy. Therapy is all about the self. Looking into the dark places and trying to decipher their origins. Perhaps the approach ought to be to think less of the self and focus on the actions we need to take. If we take that approach then perhaps the darkness will dissipate on its own
In other words, do we need to resolve the issues that hold us back first or do we need to move forward and let the light guide the way?
After the Menorah was lit on the last night of Chanukah at Ponce City Market we took to dancing. A dad was standing on the side with his son and I encouraged him and his son to join the circle.
He was hesitant as his son didn't want to join. I said to him "Be a proud Jew, Loud and Proud!" "That's right!" he said as he joined the circle, his son watching from the side.